When I first reached out to Eleanor, I had an imbalance within that I couldn’t quite identify. All I knew is that my feelings of heaviness and unworthiness weren’t welcome to stay much longer. I was losing myself to the external world, and ultimately forgot what made Rachael who she is.

Eleanor taught me to slow down and embody my values over the pressures of society, leading me to quit a uni course I no longer saw value in. She taught me to speak with confidence; enabling me to end a three year relationship that was in its final chapter.

The lessons from Eleanor remain with me today, and I even carry a small note in my purse quoting what she said in our last call - “But can you smell Spring?”.

You might have all the external ‘things’, but at the end of the day, it’s the small but significant aspects of life that keep us joyful and happy. It serves as a constant reminder to seek love, abundance and joy everywhere I go.

Thank you Eleanor for teaching me what it means to be ME.

I found Eleanor on Instagram about 7 months after my partner and I had decided we wanted to explore swinging. We went through a very stressful TTC journey and after we had decided not to have kids we started talking about swinging and the shared fantasies we had.

Me being me I jumped right in the deep end without taking the time to think about what I actually enjoyed in the bedroom and what I felt comfortable doing. I also compared myself a lot to my partner thinking “oh I wish I could be more like him in the bedroom”, thinking that I wasn't enough.

After jumping in and having some not-so-great experiences I was feeling pretty distressed and anxious. Part of me wanted to keep going but other parts of me knew how we were doing it wasn't in alignment with what I truly wanted or was comfortable with.

Eleanor helped me understand our sexual "archetypes" as I like to call them! I realised that we were different when it came to what turned us on and that was ok. One wasn't better or worse than the other just different. She helped me release the shame I had about what turned me on in the bedroom and get clear on what I wanted. She then helped me set clear boundaries which helped us progress in a way that felt safe and enjoyable to me.

The most amazing thing happened after that. We actually met a great couple that we both really like. I was able to communicate with them where I was at and how I wanted to progress things. They let me go at my own pace and things progressed gradually until the point where I felt comfortable to take the next step. Since then we've had the most amazing and pleasurable experiences with them. I feel excited about what we are doing and completely safe. It's also really helped me understand my partner's fantasies and feel safe to let him explore more. So grateful to Eleanor for helping me because now I'm having the best fucking time and amazing sex!

Dear Eleanor,

I wanted to take a moment to express my deep gratitude for the incredible work that you do as a sex educator. Your dedication to creating awareness around sexual liberation and helping individuals explore their sexuality in a safe and supportive environment has had a profound impact on my partners perception and outlook, which in turn has had a tremendous effect on our relationship.

Before my partner met you she struggled with her own sexuality and felt shame and guilt around my desires. But with your guidance and support, she was able to gain a much deeper understanding of herself and my needs, and learn how to communicate them effectively so we could both be on the same page.

Over the 12 weeks you not only provided her with the knowledge and tools needed to feel empowered in her sexuality but also helped discover what she truely desires and that its ok for us both to have different desires. We don't need to meet each other on any level but simply embrace our individualities with the same love and respect that brought us together in the first place.

The change in our relationship in such a short time has been quite remarkable, my partner and I have been able to build a more intimate and fulfilling relationship, both emotionally and sexually. We have learned to communicate openly and honestly about our desires, and have explored new experiences together with mutual respect and trust.

I cannot thank you enough for the incredible impact that you have had on our lives and if you are a bloke reading this please remember: Your support, understanding and communication without judgement is key to providing your partner with what she needs to succeed - Step up and you will be surprised with what happens.

With deep gratitude and appreciation,

G

My time coaching with Eleanor was truly a special time in my life and unlocked so much that was holding me back from achieving my goals.

Eleanor has a beautiful and gentle way of coaxing out inner truths, and bringing me back to a place of warmth, compassion and love, where we grounded all my goals. Eleanor's mentorship was such a gift, she was so present, loving and firm, and held me accountable to myself in a way that only someone separate from the internal chaos can do!

She guided me though it, sorting fact from fiction, gently discarding belief systems that weren't serving me, while creating habits and routines that would set me up for a joyous and purposeful life. I can't thank you enough. I came to you despondent, directionless and full of self-criticism, and continue after you, empowered and passionate about creating my stamp on the world.

You have truly changed the course of my life.

I’ve absolutely loved our sessions together! Eleanor has an intuitive knowing and a way of uncovering themes and connecting dots I wasn’t able to see prior. Having her support and encouragement over the last three months has been invaluable.

She was my biggest cheerleader and just as excited about my wins as I was!

I honestly couldn’t believe how much I had achieved during our time together. Thanks to her - this is the most confident and sexiest I’ve ever felt in my life! Thank you Eleanor. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

What an incredible journey I just finished. Eleanor was there for me every step of the way, so I never felt alone or scared. The shifts in energy and mindset where consistent throughout the three months. I grew as a woman, in regards to the way I see myself, the way I treat myself and my body. I grew as a person in the way I see and take on the world.

It is an experience I am forever grateful for and to have had this amazing opportunity to work with Eleanor's beautiful soul.